I recently became an independent escort after working 2 years with several agencies. This now allows me to feel more in control of my working environment with better return. I have recently run into a problem of the Lover/Client, a gentleman who would much rather be my lover than my source of income.
Usually the situation is mutally understood as: my arrival, conversation, sex, conversation, my departure. Sometimes we mix it up with: my arrival, food and drink, sex, more sex, my departure. Or the extremely rare: my arrival, conversation, I receive a massage, conversation, my departure.
Each and every one of these scenarios involve a monetary transaction regardless of what takes place. The payment is for my time, of course sex is expected, but it allows for the idea that it is me who is calling the shots.
Being independent has allowed me to advertise and screen clients better suited to my personality, likes and dislikes. Unfortunately several of my clients have started mistaking the excellent chemistry we have as evidence we were meant to be together, or at least should get to know each other better for a reduced or non existent cost.
I am unsure of how to negotiate this. I'm slightly angry that they call up escorts and then imply that we are somehow less human for requesting a donation.
We are the fillers of girlfriendless space, do not piss us off!
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